You can't fear & serve at the same time.
Uplevel your relationship to power, authority and mentoring skills to shift outcomes and create LIFE CHANGING breakthroughs
Ever felt like you kiiinda need your client's approval?
...and instead of being bold, direct, honest and relaxing into your power - you feel yourself worrying how they will perceive you and then THEY end up running the show?
You might be shy to admit that you don't always feel like the "leader" in your coaching relationships.
You might be good with your clients that are "below your level" but end up feeling threatened when interacting with clients, students, or other coaches that you perceive as powerful
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Or, maybe you've found yourself entangled in draining power struggles with clients, peers, or students - frustrated at not being respected or heard & feeling the draining need to assert & flex your authority to maintain control.
WHAT YOU'RE MISSING IS CONNECTION TO YOUR TRUE POWER:
SYMPTOMS OF NOT HAVING
TRUE POWER:
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People overstep your boundaries and it catches you off guard. The line between being loving and compassionate and being an over-giving doormat is confusing.
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You get triggered, freeze, or react when clients or peers are aggressive or dominant, leaving you feeling unsettled and unsure how to respond effectively.
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You feel like you’re in an endless marathon, constantly trying to be the best, do the best, and outperform others, but end up burning out from the relentless pressure.
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You fear that others will eventually “find out” you’re not as capable as they think, struggling with imposter syndrome that undermines your confidence.
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You question yourself when coaching peers who are “on your level” or above, or whom you perceive as powerful, leading to self-doubt and hesitation.
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You ruminate over what you should have said in challenging situations, but when the time comes, you freeze up and censor yourself to fit what you think others expect, rather than speaking your truth.
WHY WE DON'T HOLD
POWER & AUTHORITY:
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The looming fear that standing in your authority will lead to rejection, criticism, the "cancel boogie man," or clients quitting your containers.
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You struggle with being a high-achieving performer archetype, leading to people-pleasing behaviors in client relationships or personal connections as a survival strategy to ensure you're loved, at the expense of holding your own power and authority.
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You have a challenging past with authority, whether from a dominating parent or sibling, or from having to be in charge too early in life, which impacts your current leadership style.
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Leading people who are used to being in power—working with clients and leaders who hold significant power in their own lives or industries—feels like walking into a jaguar's den, making you forget that you are also a jaguar.
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You don't know how to hold boundaries when they’re tested, catching you off guard and sending you into a dysregulated spiral.
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You’re good at being vulnerable but are confused about when and how to be direct. The balance between nurturing and holding, and being direct, becomes murky because your work involves dealing with deep emotional issues, making the power dynamic more complex and sensitive.
...BUT WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU HAVE TRUE POWER & AUTHORITY?
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Clients naturally respect you because of how you hold yourself—your energy emanates power, and people follow that accordingly, enhancing client trust and respect as they see you as knowledgeable and competent.
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People value your offerings more, trust you more, and pay you more because your reputation is well-respected, holding true power rather than power over others.
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You stand out from the crowd—knowing what you’re doing, how you’re doing it, and where you’re going makes you magnetic and trustworthy, a role model others look up to, trust, admire, and want to be close to.
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You wield clarity and direction in your containers, cutting through any lingering confusion, doubt, or fear, resulting in better outcomes and stronger client results with less work.
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Confidence is found within—no more seeking validation from clients, your audience, or anyone else. You hold the keys to your power, radiating it out instead of looking for it externally.
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Your circles are filled with loving, respectful, and powerful people who don’t create insecure power dynamics because they have it in themselves, leading to resilience and adaptability in challenging situations, and more fun, energy, and playfulness in holding your authority.
WHAT IS TRUE POWER?
True power is the ability to be unshakably confident without needing to prove yourself to anyone, to know yourself and what you're capable of deep on the deepest levels, AND keep your heart open, move into vulnerability without fear, and not need to be hyperventilate and on guard tracking everything and everyone all the time.
It is the ability to wield both soft skills - like compassion, holding, nurturing, and depth, and hard skills like presence, leadership, directness, and fearless authority.
It does not seek control over others, the need for external validation, or the need to dominate to feel powerful because it is OWNED internally and does not need energy from anywhere outside itself.
It is what every successful coach needs.
In this class you will learn
THE RADIANT AUTHORITY BLUEPRINT:
• Learn the secret sauce to powerful leading while also keeping an open heart.
• Access to where power is hidden in your somatic body & how to access it daily
• Techniques to speak your truth clearly and confidently, even in challenging situations.
PRAISE FOR THE POWER OF THIS WORK
MEET YOUR TEACHERS
Jessica Benstock: The Teacher & Instructor
Jessica is a teacher of somatic & subconscious rewiring to coaches who seek high level mastery and mentorship to excel in their own legacy.
And a leadership mentor + personal advisor for high level 6 & 7 figure entrepreneurs & founders.
She specializes in somatic and subconscious trauma resolution, rewiring, and energetic cultivation.
Her approach integrates heart-led self-knowledge with transformative healing, turning challenges into growth opportunities.
With expertise in emotional and ancestral healing, energetic awakening, sexual embodiment, and power reclamation.
Jessica blends subconscious reprogramming, somatic healing, trauma resolution, meditation, hypnotherapy, relationship dynamics, and Chinese medicine energetics. She has also trained with indigenous elders in Mayan, Lakota, Shipibo, and Quechua rituals.
Jessica’s facilitation style addresses the root of energetic and emotional issues. She has trained over 1,100 students and worked with high-level executives and entrepreneurs. Based in Boulder, CO, she enjoys sensuality, meditation, writing, dancing, metal shows, hermeticism, snowboarding, and prayer invocation work.
Rayray: The Master of Ceremonies
Rachel (aka RAYRAY) is a leadership advisor / consultant for women in the coaching industry. She focuses on refining the skillsets of vision, communication, leading from the heart, energetic polarity, recovering the voice of truth, wielding power, rewilding the feminine spirit, and helping women come into full possession of their soul’s quintessential purpose. Her background as a thought leader & serial entrepreneur of multiple million-dollar businesses provides a holistic union of primal animal-body wisdom with celestial-spiritual intelligence.
In this workshop experience, Rayray will be hosting, moderating, and guiding as Master of Ceremonies, alongside Jessica to provide an engaging & refreshing transformation for all.
